7th May 2012
Sexual attraction is a mysterious thing. I have a girlfriend who is really particular about her type of man though she is boringly predictable really as she professes that only a tall, dark and handsome stranger will do. I’ve never understood that phrase. I get the tall bit as for some women height equates to an ability to protect I suppose. Dark, well that probably indicates a sense of being a bad boy – a blonde guy seems to be clean cut and innocent when compared to a man with dark black hair. Handsome is obvious, we are all attracted to physical beauty after all. But ‘stranger’? Does that signify that men you know intimately have become dull and offer no excitement? Or does it mean that the sexy escort likes an element of potential danger, is attracted to the unknown?
Given that the best bit of any relationship is the first three months in my opinion it probably just indicates the sense of freshness. When all is new and you are exploring the sexual proclivities of a new partner there is an excitement about it that is gone once you have been together for some time. It’s a major reason why I love being a visiting escort at Hertfordshire visiting escorts and no doubt one of the reasons that men book a date with a busty escort beauty. To be with someone new and to flirt without knowing the next steps is a marvellously thrilling experience. To give a sublime sensual massage for the first time is electric and so perhaps the ‘stranger’ thing is easier to understand than I first thought.
Personally I do not have a type; I am attracted to humour and confidence in a man and whilst I’m not saying that looks can be ignored for me they are not the most important thing. If a guy is charming on a first date and compliments me on my appearance, is respectful and considerate I go all weak at the knees. Funnily enough one of my friends is the opposite, the sexy Hertfordshire girl just loves a guy who is naughty and suggestive and who is always up for a sexy time, the raunchier the better.
It kind of goes against the whole ‘variety is the spice of life’ idea if you have a type and stick to it in my opinion. Tall, short, big or small it doesn’t matter to me one iota. All that I care about is having a good time and if a guy is game for a laugh we will get along just fine.
For men I think it is even simpler. A guy sees a girl showing a bit of cleavage and that’s it. As Harrison Ford said in one movie, “You know what makes a guy interested about a woman, she shows up on the date...”